Maybe you should ask him/her.
A widow wants Apple to disclose her dead husbands ‘silly little password’. Obviously, asking the husband is out of the question. So what next?
All she wants to do, allegedly, is download a new game onto the iPad, but we only have her word for that.
Her husband left no clue as to what the password is, but maybe that was intentional on his part, and maybe he just had other things on his mind and never gave it a second thought. We will never know for sure
Whatever the reason, I would take great exception to either Apple or Microsoft helping somebody else to get MY passwords, and fortunately, they do NOT do it, and there is no official Apple or Microsoft way to do it.